tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-68546957375830516032024-02-08T05:16:57.153-08:00My world.. My life.. My thoughts..Mrs. Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107069390841134131noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6854695737583051603.post-51647882987483138152013-04-03T00:38:00.003-07:002013-04-03T00:38:30.474-07:00Catchy Quotes I love!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><strong>Here is a compilation of quotes which I love.. Put so much effort into it, of course taken from the Internet but I had to type it all.. Happy Reading! :) </strong></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">To fix everything: Dad used duct tape, Mom used band aid & kisses, God used nails.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The key to heaven was nailed on the cross.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">To err is human. To blame it on someone else is even more human.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Christians are like coal of a fire. Together they glow, apart they get cold.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus paid a bill He didn’t owe.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Failing to forgive someone lets them live in your head, rent-free.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Amazing grace is God's specialty.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Every crisis in life makes us bitter or better. Its our choice.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God gives and forgives. Man gets and forgets.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When praises go up, blessings pour down.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Prayer is the real free wireless communication.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Be an organ donor. Give your heart to Jesus.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Give God what is right, not what is left.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Exercise daily. Walk with God.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Forgive us Jesus, because while we slept comfortably in our beds, You suffered. While we dreamt, You lived out a nightmare.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">What's missing: CH_ _CH? U R!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Worry is a dark room where negatives are developed. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You have to give all to Jesus to get all of Jesus.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Exposure to the Son may prevent burning.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When God saw you, it was love at first sight.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Plan ahead - it wasn’t raining when Noah built an ark.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Give Satan an inch, and he'll be a ruler.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Decisions can take you out of God's will but not out of his reach.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Never give the devil a ride, he will always want to drive.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The way to heaven is to turn right and keep straight on the narrow road.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Been taken for granted? Imagine how God feels.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Life is short. Death is sure. Sin is the curse. Christ is the cure.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Swallow your pride daily. It’s non-fattening.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The best eraser is an honest confession to God.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">To know happiness, know God. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Everytime a baby is born, so is a mother.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Exposure to the Son will prevent burning.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Happiness is a decision, so choose to be happy at all times. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Knowing what's right doesn’t mean much unless you do what's right. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">A loose tongue often gets into a tight place.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God is not into religion, He is into relationships.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Promises are like garbage, you must carry them out daily. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You can preach a better sermon with your life than with your lips.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You only have one life to love.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Impossible? Jesus makes it possible.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Free will is God's gift of a do-it-yourself kit.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You cant walk with God and hold hands with the devil.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Christian life is like an airplane - when you stop, you drop.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Too blessed to be depressed.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">To become a father is not hard. To be a father is.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">A day of worry is more exhausting than a day of work.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you want to talk to Jesus, try a knee-mail.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Lighthouses don’t ring bells to get attention - they just shine.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Need a new life? God accepts trade-ins.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Forgive your enemies, it messes with their heads.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Read the Bible, it will scare the hell out of you.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Did you know God's last name is not "Damn".</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus loves you whether you like it or not.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Eternal life is the ultimate vacation.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Thankfulness is the soul that joy thrives in.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Heavenly forecast: Reign forever.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Christ is the only door into heaven.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">A mother's love is just a small sample of God's love for us.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God has no problems, just plans.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When we awake from our sin, we realize we are still with God.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus, you cant put a good man down.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">To care more for those who care less for you is divine.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I heard the forecast, but I know who is in control.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Most people who sing their own praises cant carry a tune.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I was going to waste, but Jesus recycled me into new.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">For where your treasure is, your heart will also be.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus, the carpenter, needs joiners.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God loves us the way we are, but He refuses to leave us that way.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Christmas is his party, not yours. Get over it.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Uninspired by Jesus? Bet you've never met Him.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">How can you be a self mad man? I distinctly remember making you myself. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">-God</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Don’t give up. Moses was once a basket case.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">We're not like dairy queen, but we have great Sundays.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">More God, less you.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">It wasn’t the apple, it was the pair.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Home improvement: Bring your family to church.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Never let what you can't do get in the way of what you can do.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you find it hard to stand for Jesus, try kneeling first.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You don’t care how much we know until you know how much we care.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Work for the Lord - His retirement plan is out of this world.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Weather forecast: The Son is always shining.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">There are some questions that cant be answered by Google.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus is like air conditioning for your soul. Aaagghhh!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pastors feed & lead. Members swallow & follow. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The weather never changes in hell. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Aspire to inspire before you expire. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If God had a wallet, your picture would be on it. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God wants spiritual fruits, not religious nuts. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">LOST? Use GPS - God's Positioning System. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">A cheap facelift is a smile.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">It may look hopeless, but we serve a "Yes" Lord.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God wont be looking for your medals, degrees or diplomas. He'll be looking for your scars. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Son coverage provides Life assurance. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Eternity is a long time to be wrong.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You can't walk with God and hold hands with the devil.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus Christ: Do not leave home without Him.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The vaccine for sin's pandemic disease is God's grace.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The bread of life never goes stale.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Instead of pointing a finger, why not lend a helping hand.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">We're eating free full spiritual meals at God's house today.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Walmart isn't the only saving place.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Put God in the center, and everything will come together.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God answers knee-mail.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Celebrate with an attitude of gratitude.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">An alibi is just a lie.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The wages of sin is death. Repent before payday.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Measure yourself by what's inside.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The Bible is more up to date than tomorrow's news.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God grades on the cross, not on the curve.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Every saint has a past. Every sinner has a future.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Live gently. Share abundantly. Grace over greed.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Do not put a question mark where God put a period.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The will of God will never take you where the grace of God will not protect you.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Don’t work for recognition but do work worthy of recognition.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Without the bread of life, we are toast.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If God is your co-pilot? Then swap seats.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">In the dark? Follow the Son.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sin is a family of ugly relatives.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The best vitamin for a Christian is B1.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Its hard to stumble when you're on your knees.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Turning to God is always a right turn.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you think you don’t need the church, you insult the founder.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God is never in a hurry, but he is always on time.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God doesn’t get a vacation. Bring him in yours.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When you choose to practice sin, you give up your right to do anything else.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Relax… God is in control.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Faith is a journey, not a guilt trip.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you want a good neighbor, be one.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This Valentines day, give the gift of love - give Jesus.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Hand over your life to Jesus and nobody gets hurt.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Its not too late to start a new year and new life with God.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Church is a school the whole family can go to.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Christ is the difference between hope and hopelessness.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">We don’t change the message, the message changes us.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">He who walks with God will never be late for spiritual meals.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Do not get ahead of God. He may not follow you.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">No gift to your mother can equal her gift to you - Life.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Godcast: Live downloads each week.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you do not like the way you were born, be born again.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">On your own, life is a hopeless end. But with God, it is an endless hope.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you must swear, use your own name.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Yahoo! It googles the mind that God searched for us.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Friend Request: Jesus wants to add you as a friend.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">BUSY - Being Under Satan's Yoke</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus! Coming soon to a soul near you!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus is my rock, 'n I am on his roll. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tough times don’t last, tough Christians do.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Christians, keep the faith, but not from others.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Get right or get left.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Lost on life's journey? God has the map. Ask for directions today.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Experts made the titanic. Amateurs made the ark.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Download your worries. Get online with God.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Where God's finger points, God's hand will always make the way. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Call 911! This church is on fire for God!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The world at its worst needs the church at its best. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">We are called by God to stand out, not to blend in. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God's feast or Satan's sizzling barbecue? Easy choice. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">He who has nothing to stand up for, will fall for anything.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The more you pour out, the more God pours in.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Only Jesus can provide the ultimate high.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Trust God to move your mountain but keep on climbing.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Is God your steering wheel or your spare tire?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God bless everyone. No exceptions!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Don’t fall into a Christ-less grave.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Today is yesterday's tomorrow.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Thanksgiving brings glory to God, the God of grace and glory.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Enjoy this day, compliments of God.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Faith is something to share, not a treasure we keep to ourselves.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Only God is in a position to look down on anyone.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Carrying a bible will never take the place of reading it.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Many possess the bible they should be possessed by.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Have you wasted your life? Jesus recycles.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Try Jesus, if you don’t like him, the devil will always take you back.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The best valentine you could give God is your heart.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God gives what's right, not what's left.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I like to think of marriage as a bond just between the three of us. </span></div>
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">- God</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Friends do not let friends go to hell.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God is up to something good.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">For an extreme makeover, try a faith lift.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus Christ - the sole mate for your soul.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Attachment to Christ is the secret of detachment from the world.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">AC? No. JC? Yes!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God does not believe in Atheists, therefore Atheists do not exist.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">TGIF - Thank God I'm forgiven.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Heaven is no trick. Hell is no treat.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When Satan is knocking at your door, simply say "Jesus could you get that for me?"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you find the perfect church, don’t go there, you'll ruin it.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Lord, fill my mouth with worthwhile stuff, and nudge me when I've said enough.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jesus Christ born in a manger, now preparing us a mansion.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Don’t be so open-minded, your brain may fall out. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God wants full custody, not just weekend visits. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Why pay for GPS? Jesus gives directions for free. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you want to cast a big shadow, stand in God's light. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God is like coke, he's the real thing. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Don’t cry because its over. Smile because it happened.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">To prevent sinburn, use Sonscreen.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Everyone makes mistakes. Only fools practice them.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Forecast: The Son will shine forever. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Heaven, don’t miss it for the world. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I was going to waste, but Jesus recycled me. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">7 days without Jesus makes one weak.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Anger is one letter away from danger.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Church is a hospital for sinners.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Knowing God = amazing</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Experiencing God = life changing</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">God's plan is like a movie. All the good and bad things are arranged together in order for the good ending to happen.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you keep in tune with Christ, you can sing even in the dark.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Can't sleep? Don't count the sheep. Talk to the Shepherd. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"></span>Mrs. Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107069390841134131noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6854695737583051603.post-77382568361694897462012-10-06T22:16:00.002-07:002012-10-06T22:21:26.250-07:00When I say... "I am a Christian"<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">One of the favorite quotes I love is from Maya Angelou, an African-American poet, producer, novelist, and so much more.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><strong>"I am a Christian"</strong></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span></div>
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm not shouting "I'm clean livin'."</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm whispering "I was lost,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Now I'm found and forgiven."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I don't speak of this with pride.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm confessing that I stumble</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">and need Christ to be my guide.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm not trying to be strong.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm professing that I'm weak</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">And need His strength to carry on.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I</span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">'m not bragging of success.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm admitting I have failed</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">And need God to clean my mess.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm not claiming to be perfect,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">My flaws are far too visible</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">But, God believes I am worth it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I still feel t he sting of pain.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I have my share of heartaches</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">So I call upon His name.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm not holier than thou,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm just a simple sinner</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Who received God's good grace, somehow!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">The original version they say is this one below by Carol Wimmer in 1988.. Anyway, whatever and whoever really wrote it, both are just as inspiring and worth sharing and reading. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm not shouting, "I've been saved!"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm whispering, "I get lost!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">That's why I chose this way."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I don't speak with human pride</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm confessing that I stumble -</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">needing God to be my guide.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm not trying to be strong</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm professing that I'm weak</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">And pray for strength to carry on.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm not bragging of success.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm admitting that I've failed</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">And cannot ever pay the debt.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I don't think I know it all</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I submit to my confusion</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Asking humbly to be taught.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I'm not claiming to be perfect,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">My flaws are far too visible</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">But, God believes I'm worth it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I still feel the sting of pain.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I have my share of heartache</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">Which is why I seek His name.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">When I say... "I am a Christian"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I do not wish to judge</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I</span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"> have no authority - </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;">I</span><span style="font-family: "Trebuchet MS", sans-serif;"> only know I'm loved.</span>Mrs. Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107069390841134131noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6854695737583051603.post-31090851924788781912012-07-07T00:13:00.001-07:002012-07-07T05:30:15.935-07:0050 Tips/Advices for Married Couples<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<strong>50 Payo para sa Mag-Asawa</strong><br />
- from the book of Ptr. Ed Lapiz of Day by Day church <br />
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<strong>1. LAGING TANDAAN NA KAYO AY REGALO NG DIOS PARA SA ISA’T-ISA.</strong><br />
Remembering that your spouse is a gift from God is a healthy thing to do. It will somehow help you avoid thinking that your spouse is just a chance; worst, a mistake. Totoo naman talaga na ang asawa ay regalo ng Dios. Ang asawa ay hindi lang napulot kung saan. Ang asawa ay hindi galing sa impakto. Lalong hindi siya hulog ng impiyerno. Ang asawa ay regalo ng Dios. Laging tandaan na ang mga regalo ng Dios ay mabuti. Ang asawa mo ay isa sa mga mabubuting regalo ng Dios sa iyo. <br />
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<strong>2. IPAKITA AT IPADAMA ANG PAG-IBIG SA PARAAN NA GUSTO NIYA. </strong><br />
May mga mag-asawang nagsabing: <br />
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"Hindi ko maramdamang mahal ako ng aking asawa." <br />
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Ang dahilan- hindi siya minamahal sa paraang gusto niya. Baka naman kasi hindi sinasabi sa asawa kung paano niya gustong mahalin. Hindi masama at lalong hindi nakakahiya na sabihin sa iyong asawa kung paano mo ibig mahalin. Malaking tulong din kung tatanungin mo ang iyong asawa kung paano niya gustong mahalin. Lalo kang mamahalin ng asawa mo kung mamahalin mo siya sa paraang gusto niya. <br />
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<strong>3. SA ARI-ARIAN AT PERA HUWAG MAG KANYA-KANYA.</strong><br />
Sa mag-asawa, ang ari-arian ng isa ay ari-arian ng dalawa. Walang "akin, akin." Walang "sa’yo, sa’yo". Lahat "atin ito." Ang perang kinita ng isa ay pera ng mag-asawa. If in marriage the man and the woman were one flesh, then what is owned by one is owned by the other. Kaya huwag nang magtaguan pa.. Ilabas na ang perang pinaakaka-ipit- ipit sa pitaka. <br />
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<strong>4. SHOWER EACH OTHER WITH LOVE. </strong><br />
Diligin ninyo ng pag-ibig ang isa´t-isa para sumagana ang pagsasama. Ang maayos at matatag na pagsasama ng mag-asawa ay hindi nagaganap nang basta basta ito ay parang halaman na inaalagaan at dindiligan. Pag-ibig ang ipandilig, hindi masamang hinala, paninira, o pangungutya. <br />
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<strong>5. MAGING CREATIVE SA PAGPAPAKITA AT PAGPAPADAMA NG PAG-IBIG. </strong><br />
Ang pagiging creative sa pagpapadama ng pag-ibig ay napakalaking tulong sa pagpapanatili ng init ng pagsasama ng mag-asawa. Kung nag-iisip para maging creative, may thrill, may excitement! Therefore hindi boring. Nakasasawa kung paulit-ulit lang. paminsan-minsan dapat mayrong konting pagbabago sa pagpapahayag at pagpappadam ng pag-ibig. <br />
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Halimbawa: <br />
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Kung lagi mo lang sinasabi sa asawa mo "I love you, " ngayon isulat mo sa magandang papel at ilagay mo sa magandang frame. O di ba creative? Kung laging papel at ballpen ang ginagamit mo to say "I love you" to your spouse, ngayon kung kaya mong magrent ng jet plane ipasulat mo sa ulap sa pamamagitan ng usok ang "I love you" addressed to your spouse. From paper and pen. To sky and usok. Wow! Di ba creative? Maging creative, OK! <br />
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<strong>6. SHOW CONCERN ON THE INTERESTS OF YOUR SPOUSE. </strong><br />
Huwag lang himukin ang asawa na magpakita ng concern sa kung anung interests mayroon ka. Magkusa ka rin naman magpakita ng concern sa interests ng iyong asawa. Suportahan mo siya. Alamin ang paboritong sports ng iyong asawa at makipaglaro kung kaya mo rin lang. Makipag-usap sa asawa tungkol sa mga paksang gusto niya. Samahan ang asawa kung gusto niyang isama sa panood ng mga pelikulang gusto niya. Malaking tulong sa masayang pagsasama ang maging concern sa interests ng isat-isa. <br />
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<strong>7. SATISFY THE SEXUAL NEED OF YOUR SPOUSE. </strong><br />
Attend not only to your personal sexual satisfaction but also to the satisfaction of your spouse. Pag hindi mo sinikap na i-satisfy ang iyong asawa baka humanap siya ng ibang mag-sasatisfy sa kanya. <br />
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Misis: <br />
• Ihanda ang sarili para sa asawa. <br />
• Maligo! Magpaganda! Magpabango! <br />
• Huwag parang patay pag nakikipag "do" <br />
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Mister: <br />
• Huwag tratuhing sex object ang asawa mo. <br />
• Be gentle at huwag gawing pang-akrobatik ang misis mo. <br />
• Magtootbrush ka! Maligo! Magpabango <br />
• Paano gaganahan ang misis mo kung mabaho ang hininga mo, amoy lansangan ang ulo mo, amoy grasa ang katawan mo. Mahiya ka naman sa misis mo, no! <br />
• Sikaping huwang maiwang bitin ang misis pag nakikipa "do" <br />
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<strong>8. AVOID RETIRING TO BED WITH UNSETTLED ILL FEELINGS.</strong><br />
Ang paminsan-minsang ma-offend ng asawa o maka-offend ng asawa ay bahagi na ng buhay mag-asawa. Kung sakaling ma-offend ka muli ng iyong asawa, huwag mong hayaang makatulog ka ng may sama ng loob sa kanya. Huwag hayaang makatulugan ang galit sa asawa, baka kasi pag pagising mo patay ka na. Pangit mamatay na may kimkim na sama ng loob sa asawa. Kung balak mong bukas ay alisin sa iyong dibdib ang samang dulot ng iyong asawa, gawin mo na ngayon baka bukas ay huli na. <br />
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<strong>9. BE GENTLE AND TACTFUL IN CORRECTING AN ERROR COMMITTED BY YOUR SPOUSE. </strong><br />
Walang asawang perfect. Lahat nagkakamali. If you need to correct an error committed by your spouse, be specific. Attack an error committed by your spouse not his "being". Approach your spouse gently and tactfully. Kung hindi ka magiging maingat at matalino sa pagtutuwid sa pagkakamali ng iyong asawa, ang pagtutuwid mo ay magiging sanhi pa ng lalong ikagugulo ng inyong pagsasama. Dapat lang na ituwid ang pag kakamali o kasalanan ng asawa... But make sure to do it intelligently, tactfully, and cautiously.<br />
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Remember: In making corrections, don´t forget to offer solutions. <br />
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<strong>10. MANALANGING MAGKASAMA.</strong><br />
Sikaping huwag lumipas ang isang araw na hindi kayo nakapanalanging mag-asawa. Manalangin pakagising sa umaga at bago matulog sa gabi. Ang magkasamang pananalangin ay napakalaking tulong hindi lang sa "bonding" ng mag-asawa kundi maging sa pagharap rin nila sa problema. May mga problemang ang hirap lutasin ng "patayo". Subalit walang problema na hindi malulutas kung ang mag-asawa ay "paluhod" na mananalanging magkasama. <br />
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Tandaan: <br />
Ang isang buong araw ng mag-asawa ay maaapektuhan ng ilang minutong magkasamang panalangin nila. <br />
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<strong>11. RESPECT YOUR SPOUSE’S NEED FOR PRIVACY. </strong><br />
Natural sa tao na minsan ay gustong mag-isa. Totoo ito maging sa mag-asawa. Recognize your spouse’s need for privacy and honor it. Dapat ring tanggapin ang katotohanang may mga bagay na para lang sa asawa at hindi dapat pakialaman ng kahit sino pa. At mayron din namang mga pagkakataon na may gagawin ang asawa na hindi dapat pakialaman o panghimasukan dahil insulto sa kakayahan pag siya ay pinakialaman. Kahit pa ng asawa niya. <br />
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<strong>12. TUMUPAD SA PANGAKO.</strong><br />
Ang pangko galing sa asawa ay nagdudulot ng saya. Pero higit na ligaya ang madarama kung ang asawa ay tumutupad sa pangako niya. Huwag lang puro pangako. Tumupad ka! Liligaya ang iyong asawa, titibay ang pasasama, kung sa pangako tumutupad ka! POGI points at BEAUTY points ang pagtupad sa pangako sa asawa. <br />
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<strong>13. PAG NAGALIT, SIKAPING TUMAHIMIK MUNA. </strong><br />
Matalinong pagpapasya ang tumatahimik muna pag nagalit sa asawa. Ang tao pag galit ay may tendensya na makapanakit. Sino mang nasaktan ay may tendensyang manlaban at manakit din naman. Makatutulong na maiwasan ang away at pananakit, kung sa panahong ikaw ay galit, manahimik muna, MANALANGIN at mag-isip-isip. <br />
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<strong>14. IWASAN ANG PAGSIGAW SA ASAWA LALO SA HARAP NG IBA. </strong><br />
Ang pagsisigaw sa asawa lalo na harap ng iba ay isang tanda ng kakulangan o kawalan ng paggalang sa asawa. Pwera na lang kung bingi ang asawa, hindi tamang sinisigawan siya. Nababastos at namumukhang tanga ang iyong asawa kung sisigawan mo siya lalo sa harap ng iba. Siguro naman ayaw mong nababastos at nagmumukhang tanga ang iyong asawa. Kaya huwag mong sisigawan ang iyong asawa. <br />
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<strong>15. BE APPRECIATIVE OF YOUR SPOUSE’S TALENTS AND ABILITIES. </strong><br />
Congratulations sa mga gumagawa nito. At ‘yong hindi gumagawa nito, magbago na kayo! Make your respective spouses happy and be an encouragement to them, help develop your spouse’s talents and abilities. Malaking kagalakan at encouragement sa iyong asawa kung isa ka sa mga taong nag-a-appreciate sa kanya. Marami ang nagtatampo o nagagalit sa asawa dahil hindi ina-appreciate ang kanilang talento at abilidad ng kani-kanilang asawa. Appreciate the talents and abilities of your spouse. But more importantly, appreciate your spouse. DO IT NOW. <br />
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<strong>16. IWASANG PINTASAN ANG ASAWA. </strong><br />
Hindi madaling tanggapin ang pintas galing sa ibang tao. Lalong mahirap tanggapin kung ang pintas ay galing sa asawa mo. Napakasakit nito lalo pa kung naririnig ng ibang tao. Imbis na pintasan ang asawa mo tulungan na lang siyang magbago. At kung may sasabihin ka sa ibang tao tungkol sa asawa, magagandang bagay na lang ang ikuwento, huwag ang kapintasan niya. <br />
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<strong>17. TULUNGAN SIYANG HUWAG MAGKASALA. </strong><br />
Mas madaling makaiiwas sa pagkakasala ang iyong asawa kung tutulungan mo siya. Sa paglaban sa tukso, suportahan ang asawa. Laging alalahanin na ang pagbagsak ng asawa ay pagbagsak ng pamilya. Alamin kung ano ang laban ng iyong asawa. Laban mo rin ang laban ng iyong asawa kaya lubos na tulungan siya. Hindi - "BAHALA KA." Ang kailangan - "SUPORTAHAN TA KA." <br />
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<strong>18. ANG GALIT SA IBA AY HUWAG IBALING SA ASAWA. </strong><br />
Kung sakaling nagalit ka sa ibang tao, halimbawa sa presidente ng kompanyang pinagtatrabahuhan mo, sa boss mo, o sa kanino mang tao na tinitingala mo na hindi mo kayang ipakita ang galit mo, huwag mong ibaling sa iyong asawa ang galit mo. Maging aware ka dito dahil pwedeng mangyari ito nang hindi mo namamalayan. Unconsciously you might transfer your anger with someone else to your spouse. <br />
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It happens to some. I pray it won’t happen to you. <br />
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<strong>19. WHEN YOU HAVE OFFENDED YOUR SPOUSE, LEARN TO SHOW YOU’RE SORRY. </strong><br />
Pag na-offend mo ang iyong asawa, kung talagang sorry ka, ipakita mo na totoong sorry ka. When you realize that you have wronged your spouse, don’t just say "I’m sorry." Show that you really are sorry. Show it with your face and show it with your action. May mga nag-sosorry sa asawa na habang sinasabi ang "I’m sorry" ay nakangisi. Lalo tuloy nabubuwisit ang asawa niya sa kanya. May mga nagsasabing "I’m sorry" sa asawa na wala namang pagbabagong makita sa pakikitungo sa asawa. When you say you’re sorry, mean it. And show that you really are sorry. <br />
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<strong>20. FORGIVE. </strong><br />
Patawarin mo ang iyong asawa. Kailan? Pag nagkasala! Kahit pa gaano katindi ang kasalanang nagawa sa iyo ng asawa mo, patawarin mo siya para wala kang bigat na dinadala. Ang di-pagpapatawad ay nakasasakit ng ulo. Nakakapangit pa ito! Talo ang di nagpapatawad. Panalo ka kung magpapatawad ka. Ang pagpapanatili ng galit ay nagdudulot ng hinagpis at karaniwang humahantong sa pananakit. May galit ka pa ba sa asawa mo? Patawarin mo na siya.. The earlier you forgive when you get offended by your spouse, is better than best. Tandaan: Hindi optional ang magpatawad. Ang magpatawad ay utos ng Dios. <br />
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<strong>21. AVOID NAGGING.</strong><br />
Nakakainis ang asawang nagger. Ayon sa ilang asawa ng nakausap ko: <br />
"Lalo akong nagtatampo pag nina-nag ako ng asawa ko." <br />
"Gusto kong sungangain ang bibig ng asawa ko.”<br />
"Nanliliit ako and I feel stupid pag nina-nag ako ng asawa ko." <br />
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Ikaw, ano ang pakiramdam mo pag nina-nag ka ng asawa mo? <br />
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Kung may nagawang pagkakamali ang iyong asawa at gusto mong sabihin sa kanya, minsan lang itong sabihin sa kanya. At huwag idagdag pa dito ang mga dati pang mali na nagawa niya. Sa pagsasalita sikaping maging mahinahon, huwag pagalit, hindi nang-iinis o nanlalait. <br />
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<strong>22. HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR. </strong><br />
Nakakapangit ang laging nakakunot ang noo. Sa mag-asawa kailangan ang ngiti at tawa. Can you imagine a couple without a sense of humor? Boring di ba? Ang lungkot ng buhay ng mag-asawa pag walang sense of humor. Parang laging may patay. It’s nice to make people happy especially your spouse. Have a sense of humor. Patawanin mo ang iyong asawa. Learn to crack good funny jokes. Dagdag ligaya kung ang asawa ay marunong magpatawa. <br />
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<strong>23. MANGARAP! MAGTIYAGA! MATALINONG GUMAWA. </strong><br />
Libreng mangarap. Mangarap kayong mag-asawa at magkasamang magplano tungo sa katuparan ng inyong pangarap. Walang challenge ang buhay kung walang pangarap sa buhay ang mag-asawa. Magkaroon kayo ng kaisahan sa inyong pangarap. Mahirap para sa mag-asawa ang walang isang pangarap. Walang tagumpay kung walang pangarap. Pero huwag lang puro pangarap. Baka bangungutin kayo kung puro pangarap lang. Maging masipag, at matiyaga. Magtrabaho nang husto, gumawa, at maging matalino sa paggawa. <br />
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<strong>24. MORE THAN WINNING THE ARGUMENT, AIM TO WIN YOUR SPOUSE.</strong><br />
Natural sa mag-asawa ang paminsan-minsan ay magkaroon ng argumento. Kung sakaling mangyari ito sa inyo, aim on winning your spouse, more than winning the argument against your spouse. Aanhin mo ang manalo sa argumento kung mawawala naman sa’yo ang asawa mo. Sige, isipin mo. <br />
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<strong>25. MAGING ATTRACTIVE SA IYONG ASAWA. </strong><br />
Maraming asawa ang nahulog sa kandugan ng iba kasi hindi na attractive para sa kanya ang kanyang asawa. Huwag kayong magpabaya sa inyong itsura. Mag-exercise at iwasan ang walang pakundangang pagkain nang sobra para di masira ang inyong pigura. At sikapin na rin na maging mabango para sa asawa. Tanungin din ang asawa kung anong amoy at itsura ang gusto niya. Sundin ang gusto ng asawa para maging attractive sa kanya. I-attract mo ang iyong asawa baka kasi iba pa ang umattract sa kanya. Sige ikaw rin. Baka magsisi ka. <br />
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<strong>26. MAGING KONTENTO KAYO. </strong><br />
Delikado ang maaaring kahinatnan ng mag-asawang walang kakuntentuhan sa kung ano’ng mayron sila. Gulo ang kasasadlakan. Ano ba ang kailangan para maging kontento ang tao? Ang kasapatan ba ng lahat ng pangangailangan? Kung dito nakabase ang kakuntentuhan walang mag-asawang mauubusan ng pangangailan. Therefore, walang mag-asawang makukuntento. Hindi masama ang maghangad ng karagdagan para sa kinabukasan. Pero maging kuntento muna at magpakaligaya sa kung ano ang mayron kayo ngayon. Baka kasi hindi dumating ang bukas. Pag dumating ang "bukas," ang "bukas" ay naging "ngayon." Kaya kung ano mayron kayo, magpakaligaya at maging kuntento. Kung kuntento ka sakaling mamatay ka ngayon, maluwag ang iyong dibdib na ikaw ay papanaw at marahil nakangiti ka pa hanggang kabaong. <br />
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<strong>27. UMIWAS SA MGA SITWASYON NA MAARING MAGBUNGA NG MASASAMANG HINALA. </strong><br />
Para hindi ka mapagbintangan na may ginagawang masama, iwasan ang mga sitwasyong kanina-hinala. Huwag kang magasasama o sasama sa hindi mo asawa sa isang lugar na makukwestiyon ang iyong pagsasama. <br />
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Halimbawa: <br />
• Sa loob ng pribadong sasakyan (dalawa lang kayo sa loob ng kotse); <br />
• Sa park ng pang magnobyo o pang mag-asawa;<br />
• Sa loob ng hotel<br />
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Mahirap paniwalan na ang isang lalake at isang babaeng galing sa loob ng hotel ay nagprayer meeting, nagkwentuhan, nag-jack en poy lang. Mag-ingat! Umiwas! <br />
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<strong>28. BE GENTLE.</strong><br />
Gentleness to your spouse can be best exemplified by being considerate of your spouse’s feelings and thoughts. Bago mo gawin ang isang bagay o bago mo sabihin ang gusto mong sabihin, isipin mo muna kung ano ang maaring bunga nito sa isip at damdamin ng iyong asawa. Hindi komo’t gusto mo ay gagawin mo na lang basta-basta. I-kunsidera mo naman ang isip at damdamin ng iyong asawa. Sa pagsasalita, sa gawa, maging sa paghipo at paghawak, maging gentle sa asawa.<br />
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<strong>29. BE PROUD OF YOUR SPOUSE. </strong><br />
Ipinagmamalaki mo ba ang iyong asawa? Dapat lang! Proud ka bang nakikita ang itsura ng asawa mo o gusto mong takpan siya ng dyaryo habang ipinakikilala mo siya sa ibang tao? Huwag mong ikahiya ang iyong asawa. Be proud of your spouse. Huwag mong ikahiya ang iyong asawa. <br />
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<strong>30. IGALANG ANG OPINION NG ASAWA. </strong><br />
Ang lahat ay may karapatang magpahayag ng kanyang sariling opinion. Ito man ay mali o tama. Igalang ang opinion ng asawa. Kahit di ka sumang-ayon sa opinion ng iyong asawa, ipakita mong iginagalang mo ito. Ang hindi pagkakapareho ng opinion ng iyong asawa sa iyo ay hindi nangangahulugang mali sya. Hindi lahat ng naiiba ay mali. Pero kahit pa hindi ka sang-ayon sa opinion ng asawa, dapat pa rin na igalang ang opinion nya. Ang hindi pagsang-ayon ay hindi nangangahulugan ng kawalan ng paggalang. Ang mahalaga, igalang ang opinion ng asawa. Tanda kasi ito ng paggalang sa kanya. Igalang ang asawa. <br />
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<strong>31. HUWAG MAGING “BOSSY”.</strong><br />
Sa mag-asawa walang "amo", walang “boss”. Dapat parehong naglilingkod sa isa’t-isa. The husband being appointed by God as head of the wife is not taken as "Lord over the wife". Hindi rin naman tama na ang wife ay hindi nagpapasakop sa husband. Huwag mong tratuhing alila ang iyong asawa. Pumarehas ka kahit pa mas malaki ang kinikita mo kumpara sa kanya. Kung uutusan ang asawa don’t forget the magic word - "PLEASE". At kung wala kang ginagawa at may ginagawa ang iyong asawa, huwag mo na siyang abalahin pa. Kung kaya mo rin lang ang gagawin, huwag mo nang iasa pa sa asawa. <br />
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<strong>32. MAGING MAUNAWAIN. </strong><br />
Kung gusto mong lalo kang mahalin ng iyong asawa ipakita mong inuunawa mo siya. Totoong kailangan mo ang pang-unawa. Pero higit sa hanapin mo sa asawa ang unawain ka, mas unahin mo ang unawain siya. Sa bandang huli ang hinahanap mong pang-unawa galing sa iyong asawa ay ibibigay din niya. Ang pagpapkita ng pang-unawa ay malinaw na ebidensya ng pagmamahal sa asawa. <br />
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<strong>33. KEEP COMMUNICATION LINES OPEN. </strong><br />
Dapat lang sa mag-asawa na alamin at ipaalam ang kalagayan ng isa’t-isa. This will not happen if the couple will not keep their communication open. Basic indicators of good communication between a husband and wife: <br />
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Clear transmission of message - be it thoughts or feelings. <br />
Listening – Don’t just butt in. <br />
Understanding – seeing from the perspective of the one who speaks.<br />
Empathy – feeling with. <br />
Maraming problema ang maiiwasan ng mag-asawa kung laging bukas ang komunikasyon nila para sa isa’t-isa. <br />
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<strong>34. MAGING MAHINAHON SA PAG-UUSAP PAG MAY PROBLEMANG NILULUTAS. </strong><br />
Walang problemang di malulutas sa mahinahong pag-uusap. Sa totoo lang, maraming problema ang hindi na sana lumala pa kung sa pag-uusap ay naging mahinahon ang mag-asawa. Hindi makakatulong sa paglutas ng problema kung nagsisisihan ang mag-asawa. Magpokus sa solusyon huwag sa pagkakamali o sa problema ng isa’t-isa. Iwasan din ang pangungutya at magtaas na tono pag nagsasalita. Bahagi rin ng pagiging mahinahon ang paggamit ng mga tamang salita. <br />
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<strong>35. LET YOUR SPOUSE KNOW YOUR FEELINGS AND THE PREDICAMENT YOU ARE IN. </strong><br />
Tell your spouse not only your thoughts but also your feelings. Letting your spouse know your feelings and the predicament you are in will somehow help your spouse act accordingly. Ewan ko lang kung nakakabasa ng isip ang asawa mo, hindi naman manghuhula ang asawa mo para malaman niya ang iniisip at nararamdaman mo. Sa panahong nanghihina o nagdaramdam ka, magandang sabihin ito sa asawa. Huwag sarilinin ang pagdurusa. Dahil ang mag-asawa dapat magkasama sa hirap at ginhawa. Walang silbi ang asawa kung sa panahon ng pagdurusa ay hindi nakikiisa. Pero mahirap malaman ng iyong asawa ang lagay mo kung hindi mo ito sasabihin sa kanya. Huwag mahiya. Huwag mag-alala. Magsabi ka sa asawa. <br />
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<strong>36. IWASANG ISUMBAT ANG MGA NAKALIPAS NA PAGKAKAMALING NAGAWA NIYA. </strong><br />
May mga taong pag nagalit sa asawa ay binabalik-balikan ang matagal ng pagkakamaling nagawa ng asawa. At pauli-ulit na isinusumbat ito sa kanya. Pag ganito ng ganito, sisikip ang mundo ng iyong asawa at baka marapatin pang iwan ka niya. Ang kasalanang pinagsisisihan na ay hindi na dapat isumbat pa. Pag may bagong nagawang pagkakamali ang iyong asawa, huwag mong isama iyong mga luma na. Walang kahihinatnang maganda ang isumbat sa asawa ang pagkakamaling lipas na. <br />
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<strong>37. IWASANG GAWIN ANG ANO MANG BAGAY NA ALAM MONG IKAGAGALIT NIYA. </strong><br />
May mga asawa na talagang nananadya. Tahasang ginagawa ang mga bagay na alam na ikagagalit ng kanyang asawa. HUWAG GUMAYA SA KANILA. Yon naman eh... kung ayaw mong masira ang pamilya. Hindi lang asawa ang masamang epekto pagtahasang ginagawa mo ang alam mong nakasasakit sa iyong asawa. Maaaring gantihan ka ng iyong asawa at pati ang anak mo, maaaring gayahin ka at tahasan ring saktan ka. Huwag gawin sa asawa ang mga bagay na ayaw mong sa iyo ay gawin niya. <br />
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<strong>38. SA PANAHONG NANGHIHINA ANG LOOB NG ASAWA, MAGING SOURCE OF ENCOURAGEMENT PARA SA KANYA. </strong><br />
May mga panahon maaaring manghina ang iyong asawa gawa ng kinakaharap na problema. Maging katuwang ka sa pagresolba ng problema at huwag na maging pabigat pa. Kung kailangang magsakripisyo para makatulong - magsakripisyo! Kung kailangang tumahimik para makatulong - manahimik! Gawin mo ang magagawa mo para matulungang malutas ang problema ng asawa. Be a source of encouragement. <br />
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<strong>39. IWASAN ANG PAKIKIALAM SA MGA BAGAY NA INAARING PERSONAL NG IYONG ASAWA. </strong><br />
Personal letters, text messages, bag at pitaka, at iba pang mga bagay na inaaring personal ng iyong asawa, huwag mong basta-basta babasahin, kakalkalin, at pakikialaman. <br />
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<strong>40. MAGTIWALA. </strong><br />
Ang pagpapakita ng pagtitiwala sa asawa ay malaking tulong tungo sa magandang pagsasama. Kung noon ay niloloko ka ng iyong asawa, ang magtiwala sa kanya ay maaring maging tulong tungo sa pagbabago niya. Para sa isang naglolokong asawa hindi madaling gawin ang magbago lalo kung walang tulong na manggagaling sa kanyang asawa. Kung sakaling sa kabila ng ipinakita mong pagtitiwala sa iyong asawa ay niloko ka pa rin niya, alalahanin mong sa iyo ay walang nawala. Sa iyong asawa ay marami ang nawala. Sa pagtitiwala, walang nawawala. Sa manloloko, marami ang nawawala. <br />
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<strong>41. MAGING BEST FRIEND KA NG ASAWA MO.</strong><br />
"Ako ang asawa mo." Yes! Tinuturing ka bang kaibigan ng iyong asawa? <br />
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Sagot pls.________ _________ ______ <br />
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Sa hanay ng mga kaibigan ng iyong asawa, "Ikaw ba ay kinikilala ng iyong asawa ng kanyang matalik na kaibigan?" <br />
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Sagot pls.________ _________ _________ <br />
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"Asawa mo, best friend ka ba?" <br />
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Sagot pls.________ _________ _________ _ <br />
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Dapat matalik na kaibigan ka ng iyong asawa. <br />
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Mas dapat... PINAKAMATALIK. <br />
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<strong>42. HUWAG GAWING KATATAWANAN ANG KAMALIAN, KAKULANGAN, AT KAIBAHAN NG IYONG ASAWA. </strong><br />
Lahat ay nagkakamali, lahat ay nagkukulang. Lahat ay may kaibahan. Walang taong matutuwa pag pinagtatawanan ang kanyang kakulangan, kamalian, o kaibahan. Tahasang pangungutya sa asawa ang pagtawanan ang kaibahan o pagkakamali niya. Hindi tama na ginagawang biro ang pagkukulang, o mga bagay na hindi pangkaraniwan sa asawa. <br />
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Gaya ng: <br />
• Kuntil sa tenga, <br />
• Putol na daliri o sobra sa sampu ang daliri, <br />
• Ilong na parang tapon, <br />
• Kulay ng balat, <br />
• Butas ng ilong na mukhang garapon, <br />
• At iba pa. <br />
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Huwag pagtawanan ang kamalian, kaibahan at kahinaan ng asawa. Iwasang pagtawanan ang asawa. Baka gulpihin ka o kaya baka mawalan ka ng asawa. <br />
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<strong>43. MAGING MAKA-DIOS. </strong><br />
Sa pagsasama ng mag-asawa, ang pagiging maka-Dios ang pinakamahalaga. Ang pagiging maka-Dios ang siyang magdadala sa mag-asawa sa isang matibay na pagsasama at totoong pagkakaisa. Natural sa mag-asawa ang datnan ng iba’t-ibang problema. Pagka maka-Dios ang mag-asawa, mananatiling matatag ang kanilang pagsasama kahit gaano katindi ang problemang kinakaharap nila. Ang ikinatatag ng ugnayan ng mag-asawa ay hindi nakadepende sa dami ng pera o sariling kakayahan ng mag-asawa. Ang ikinatatatag ng relasyon ng mag-asawa ay nakadepende sa Dios na siyang pundasyon ng pagsasama. Sa panahong tahimik o may kaguluhan, panahong tag-init o tag-ulan, maging maka-Dios ka at ang iyong asawa. <br />
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<strong>44. BE ATTENTIVE PAG MAY SINASABI SIYA SA IYO. </strong><br />
Di ba pag kinakausap mo ang iyong asawa gusto mo nakikinig siya? Gusto rin ng asawa mo na pakinggan mo siya pag kinakausap ka niya. Di ba ayaw mo na may ginagawang kung anu-ano ang iyong asawa pag kinakausap mo siya? O di ganon din ang gawin mo. Huwag kang gumagawa ng kung anu-ano pag kinausap ka ng asawa mo. May mag-asawang mukhang magkausap silang dalawa. Mukha lang pala. Dahil ang kausap nila ay sari-sarili pala at hindi ang isa’t-isa. Nakakabanas! Di ba? <br />
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Babala: Huwag silang tularan. <br />
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<strong>45. IPAKITA AT IPADAMA NA MAHALAGA ANG IYONG ASAWA. </strong><br />
Sarap ng pakiramdam kung feeling important ka di ba? Ang asawang nakadama na siya ay di mahalaga sa kanyang asawa ay nag-mumukhang aba, nahahabag sa sarili, at nagiging madrama. Ipakita at ipadama na mahalaga sa iyo ang iyong asawa. Masarap kasama ang taong sa iyo ay nagpapahalaga. Marami ng mag-asawa ang naghiwalay dahil sa kawalan ng pagpapahalaga sa isa’t-isa. Ipakita at ipadama na mahalaga sa iyo ang iyong asawa. <br />
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<strong>46. IIWAS SA SELOS ANG ASAWA. </strong><br />
Maraming mag-asawa ang nag-away at nasira ang buhay dahil sa selos. Marami ang nasiraan ng bait, pumatay at napatay dala ng matinding pagseselos. Natural na magselos kung kaselos-selos. Magtaka ka kung may dapat pagselosan sa’yo ang iyong asawa tapos hindi siya nagseselos. Ang pinakamaganda, iiwas sa selos ang asawa. Kung sakaling hindi sinasadya may nagawa ka o kaya may nagawa ang iba na napansin mong ipinagseselos sa iyo ng iyong asawa, ayusin agad. Huwag patagalin pa. Linawin ito at sikaping huwag maulit pa. Tandaan: Ang selos ay parang lason. Naninira, nakamamatay. <br />
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<strong>47. HUWAG SABAT NANG SABAT KUNG ASAWA MO ANG KAUSAP NG IBA. </strong><br />
May mga asawang sabat ng sabat kahit hindi siya ang kinakausap.Turn off ka ba sa asawang sabat ng sabat? Correct ka diyan! Nakakaturn-off talaga ang asawang sabat nang sabat kahit hindi kinakausap. Kaya ikaw, iwasan ang pagsasabat-sabat kung asawa mo ang kausap. Kahanga-hanga ang asawang di palasabat. <br />
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<strong>48. MAGSAMA AT MAGKAISA SA PAGGAWA NG DESISYON. </strong><br />
Sa paggawa ng desisyon dapat lang na magkasama at nakakaisa ang mag-asawa. Sa mag-asawa, hindi tamang isa lang ang gagawa ng desisyon lalo pa kung maselan o major decision ang gagawin. Kagaya ng: <br />
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• Paglipat ng bahay, <br />
• Pagbili at pagbebenta ng ari-arian, <br />
• Pagdisiplina sa mga anak, <br />
• At iba pa. <br />
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Bago gumawa ng desisyon, dapat lang na ang mag-asawa ay nag-uusap muna at nananalanging magkasama. Daan ito tungo sa pagkakaisa. <br />
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<strong>49. HUWAG KALIMUTAN ANG MGA ARAW NA PINAHAHALAGAHAN NG IYONG ASAWA. </strong><br />
Hindi dapat makalimutan ang mga araw na pinahahalagahan ng iyong asawa lalo na ang birthday at wedding anniversary. Give your spouse special greetings on special occasions. Better still, give your spouse a treat on special occasions. Gawin mo ito sa asawa mo. Sigurado ako, LOVE points ang bunga nito. Remember: Don’t forget! <br />
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<strong>50. BE RESOLVED TO LIVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE ALL YOUR LIFE. </strong><br />
Ang relasyon ng mag-asawa ay panghabangbuhay. May kasabihan: "Ang pag-aasawa ay hindi parang kaning isusubo at iluluwa pag napaso". In solving marital problems, lot of solutions can be considered as the options. God hates divorce. God intends marriage to be for life. Maraming mag-asawa ang naghiwalay na. Marami na sila. Hindi na kayo dapat dumagdag pa. Magsama kayong mag-asawa sa lungkot at ligaya, sa hirap o ginhawa, meron o walang pera, hanggang may hininga. <br />
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<strong><em>Remember: “What God has joined together, let no man separate.” – Mark 10:9</em></strong></div>Mrs. Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18107069390841134131noreply@blogger.com0